The Energy of
Money: Get into the Flow
by Andrea Adler
Money,
believe it or not, is not the root of all evil. Actually, money
is energy. If more people understood this, with all its ramifications,
there would be fewer court cases, fewer divorces, no wars, more
generosity, more campassion and more love!
Actors, healers, artists and
musicians have long lived with the notion that poverty leads to
spiritual and artistic advancement. This assumption could not be
further from truth yet many of us have become victims of this perception.
When
I was studying to be an actress, I thought the more I subjected
myself to struggle, the better performer I'd become. I would put
myself through the most ridiculous situations that only led to pain
and suffering. I was caught up in this predicament for years-and
still, on occasion, I suffer houts of temporary insanity when I
think this is the reality for a writer. No more.
Haven't
you seen successful writers and actors and musicians? Havent's you
met successful massage practitioners? Don't you know in the depths
of your being that you can achieve not just prosperity consciousness,
but prosperity itself-with all its joys of independence and freedom-by
removing this veil of ignorance.
Until
you change the vibration of your thoughts and join the collective
consciousness of financial abundance and personal power; until you
come from a place of higher awareness, integrity and professionalism,
you will continue to spin around on the wheel of poverty. Visualize
prosperity.
The
good news is that there are many ways to change this cycle. For
instance, today, this moment, see yourself as successful and begin
to act, move and speak from that place. Sit down every morning before
you start your day and create a visualization. See yourself as the
abundant person you see in your dreams, and then act as if you are
that person. Don't do this out of ego, but with the knowledge in
your heart that you are here to help people; that your service is
vital to the health and well-being of many; and that you are a channel
for this divine energy to move through. As a result of coming from
that pure place of light, God-awareness, consciousness, angelic
presence, buddhi or whatever you choose to call it, the universe
will provide you with the money you need.
Name
that source of personal power, embrace it and bring it into your
daily visualization. Offer your work to this source. When you move
out of the place of "doership," this source can work through
you to guide you to actions that will manifest the best results.
Continue to offer your practice, your gifts and your financial situation
to this source, and then move out of the way. You will eventually
attract the clientele you wish to serve.
One
of the wealthiest ment I know, a commodities trader on Wall Street,
explained to me how to make all transactions fair. He told me this
secret when I began a new business venture and asked him what I
should charge clients. I wanted to be fair to my customers but also
didn't want to undercharge for my services. "If it's fair to
you and fair to the other person, it's a good deal. If it's not
fair to one person, it's not a good deal," he said
I
took his words to heart and before long discovered that the more
I circulated money, the more money came back to me. I began to get
into the flow of this circulation and realized that it didn't only
occur when money was exchange, it occurred when there was an energy
exchange. "I'll give you a neuromuscular treatment, and in
exchange, you give me $65"; "Ill give you six Trager treatment
and in exchange you design the first three pages of my Web site";
"I'll give you a reike session and you give me $60. Oh, you
can't afford $60? That's OK, how about giving me $25 and cutting
my hair?"
In
other words, there's always a way to circulate money (energy) and
have it work both for you and for the person you are having the
exchange with. If you can define this paradigm for yourself and
truly understand that money is about giving and receiving and that
there are a billion ways for this energy to be exchanged, you'll
never have to feel guilty about discussing money with clients, or
asking for or receiving money again. Think of all the possibilities
that would open up for you when talking to clients who perhaps can't
afford your services. It's beyond barter. It's energy in exchange
for energy.
The
Lakshmi principle
Lakshmi,
the goddess of wealth in the Hindu tradition, is most often portrayed
sitting upon an open lotus flower. Lakshmi brings growth, generosity
and abundance to whatever is life enhancing. We often see her with
one or two of her hands fully open, from which shower gold coins.
(When one hand alone is pouring coins, the other is often depicted
with an open palm facing outward, poised in the gesture of blessing
that means "fear not.") This gesture might serve as a
reminder that the stream can stop, should our invocation and honoring
of these gifts cease to flow from us with sincerity and devotion.
How
can you keep Lakshmi flowing in your life and massage practice?
Here's an interesting story that might help plant this message in
your heart:
There
was a successful orthodontist in Northampton, Massachusetts. Rumor
had it that Dr. Rutherford (Not her real name) was by far the best
orthodontist in all of New England. She had three offices throughout
the state, and there were children on waiting lists at all three.
I was a single parent, starting my own business, and could not afford
braces for my son, although he needed them badly. So I mad an appointment
with Dr. Rutherford. (I figured I might as well start with the best.)
I explained my situation and asked if she would conseder bartering
since I was starting my own public-relations firm. Without pausing,
she invited me to lunch. I couldn't believe it. We met at a lovely
restaurant the following week and she explained how she'd been thingking
of ways to connect all three offices. I suggested creating a newsletter
that would involve all the children she served. They could submit
articles and jokes and poems. draw pictures of themselves before
and after the braces. We could have a contest to name the nexsletter.
She loved the idea and we shook hands. It was a great deal.
I
produced the newsletter, Brace Yourself, for three years
on a bimonthly basis, and Dr. Rutherford took care of all my son's
orthodontic needs. It was a fabulous exchange. It became no surprise
to my why her practice was so successful. I must have told 50 people
about her generosity and several of my friends ended up going to
her.
Here's
another story for you. Joseph Brunetto, a certified hypnotherapist
from Westchester, New York, usually receives his established fee,
$55-65 per hour. However, he will make an exception when the situation
warrant it. "There are times," he says, "When a can't
afford my service and I will accept a trade. Last year, for instance,
there was an artist who was out of work and recovering from a serious
operation when he was recommended to me. Our understanding was that
we would engage in a barter arrangement. So I worked with him for
several sessions and afterwards received a work of art in exchange.
"Everything
worked out fine," he adds, "but I do limit these situations;
otherwise, they can get out of hand."
Joe
Miglierie is a chiropractor from Northfield, New Jersey. His practice,
Peak Performance, uses an honor-fee system (or "the box on
the wall"), which allows patients to determine a set weekly
payment based upon what they can afford. This concept has been in
existence for more that 30 years and was used exclusively when chiropractic
work was a cash-only business and, in some places, illegal. Miglierie
feels it is the purest form of payment, and allows an entire famiy
to come for spinal checkups on a regular basis, no matter what the
can afford.
"Chiropractic
care," Miglierie says, "should be made available to every
human being, so they can express life to their maximum potential"
This
honor system is not designed to be a charity or a bargain, nor is
it to be taken advantage of. Miglierie explain that it is a privilege-and
an obligation- to pay in this way. Patients who participate must
come to the office at least once a week; pay the weekly fee that
they determined on the first visit; and refer others to Miglierie's
office. If a patient's financial situation changes, it is his or
her responsibility to adjust the fee accordingly.
You
Matter
If
Migierie didn't feel worthy of receiving a just amount from his
clients, he would starve. If he didn't have the attitude of gratitude,
he would not attract people who were thankful for his unique billing
system. What are the thoughts you are putting out there.
Joe
Lubow, executive director of the Sarasota School of Massage Therapy,
in Sarasota, Florida, told me an interesting story. He said he knew
a therapist who charged $120 for a 10-minute session. Someone asked
the therapist how he had the nerve to charge such an enormous amount
of money for so little time. The therapist said, "I charge
$10 for what I do and $110 for what I know."
On
the other hand, there are practitioners who determine a set price
for their clients and stay firm. They do not barter and have made
the decision to offer charity through other means.
Decide
what works for you and find the balance in your giving and receiving.
When the flow stops, re-evaluate your situation. take a look at
your priorities, see where they might have changed, and then make
the necessary and appropriate transition.
Andrea
Adler is a consultant, workshop presenter and the author of PR
for the Holistic Healer and Creating an Abundant Practice:
A Spiritual and Practical Guide for Holistic Practitioners and healing
Centers (self published, 2003), from which this article is excerpted.
She lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico.
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