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Mentoring
our own
Recent graduate, longtime
bodyworker, reiki master or shiatsu practitioner, all touch therapists
have something to teach one another. So goes the theory behind the
innovative Mentor Tree program of the Association
of Massage Therapists and Wholistic Practitioners (AMTWP) in
Canada.
The program was created by two massage
therapists and AMTWP members, who believe in mentoring both to help
new therapists get their practices off the ground, and to help prevent
burnout among those who have been working for a while. It was launched
in 2001.
"The idea was to create mentoring
circles," says LaDonna Smith, who developed the program with
Karen Sloane. "We wanted it to be more than one-to-one. Many
of us already work all on our own; we work in isolation."
The AMTWP, a 5,000-member national
association, includes professionals from a range of therapeutic
models, including massage therapy, reflexology and various forms
of energy work. Mentoring circles have started in Calgary, Edmonton
and Manitoba provinces, and interest is growing, particularly in
rural areas of the country, association President Melanie Hayden
says.
"We don't have chapters in our
organization, so this is an opportunity for us to build community
within each province and each municipality," she says.
In the Mentor Tree program, up to 12
members from the same geographic area, representing different modalities,
meet monthly. The meetings are organized around discussion of issues
relevant to the profession and to members' individual practices,
and are based upon four competencies: self-care, business development,
therapeutic relationships and technique. The program follows the
mentoring model outlined in The Healer's Journey by Ernesto
J. Fernandez, Smith says.
The program was originally taught on-site
in a workshop, with potential facilitators traveling to where the
workshop was held, but now a workbook has been developed that teaches
members how to start and facilitate Mentor Tree circles wherever
they are.
Participants say that participation
in the program eases some of the loneliness and strain of working
solo. And whether you're a new therapist or have been working for
20 years, the sharing is mutually beneficial. "You get the
fresh perspective from those new in the profession, and for those
of us who have been in the profession for a while, it reminds us
why we answered the call," says Smith.
Meetings are structured to encourage
open participation from everyone, but a facilitator keeps them on
track, says Hayden. They also follow general guidelines, such as
"Only speak from your own experience" and "Don't
give advice" unless it is requested.
Mostly, Mentor Tree circles are simply
a place for practitioners to be among their peers and talk about
the issues pertinent to what they do.
"It's a really safe place to talk
about these kinds of things," says Smith. "When I had
a 97-year-old client die, there was a place for me to be with the
grief. Only someone in our profession, who spends all their days
one-to-one with [another] person, who knows all their body stories
and all of their soul stories, can really understand the grief when
a client dies."
Referral networks have grown from some
of the circles, with members referring clients to practitioners
with different skills or from a different modality. "It's absolutely
amazing how open it is," says Hayden. "In theory, [we're]
competing with each other, but we never view it as such.
- Kelle Walsh
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