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Positive thinking
for better health
Your
level of optimism can determine not just how well you live, but
also how long.
Research
shows that optimism has numerous health benefits, including: decreased
stress, greater resistance to germs, a sense of well-being and improved
health, reduced risk of coronary artery disease, easier breathing
with chronic lung disease, and longer life.
How
you talk to yourself greatly determines whether you are an optimist
or pessimist. If your self-talk, also called automatic thinking,
is mostly negative, your view of the world, and your experiences,
are going to reflect this mindset. Four common forms of pessimistic
thinking include:
Filtering:
magnifying negative aspects of a situation and filtering out the
positive ones
Personalizing:
automatically blaming yourself when something bad happens
Catastrophizing:
automatically anticipating the worst
Polarizing:
seeing things only as good or bad, with no middle ground
Self-talk
develops over years. However, it is possible to change the messages
you give yourself and start thinking more optimistically. It just
takes awareness, time and practice.
Some
examples of turning negative self-talk positive:
N:
I’ve never done it before.
P: It’s an opportunity to learn something new.
N:
It’s too complicated.
P: How can I look at this from a different angle?
N:
I don’t have the resources.
P: Necessity is the mother of invention.
N:
There’s no way it will work.
P: I can try to make it work.
N:
I don’t have the expertise.
P: I’ll find people who can help me.
N:
It’s too much of a change.
P: I’m going to take a chance.
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Source: Mayo Clinic
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